Home

Clergy
Worship
Easter 2008
Officers
Organisations
Mission
Diary
About the church
Fell Church
Ecumenical links
Parish Hall
Social events
Exhibition of Cribs
PAST EVENTS
Growing Healthy Churches
Institution
Reordering 1999-2004
150th Celebrations
Parish Away Day
Past social events
Iona pilgrimage

 

 

 

Parish Away Day  at Rydal

 

Saturday,

20th March 2004

 

Ephesians 1, 15-23

Matthew 28, 1161-20

Ephesians 4, 7, 11-16

 

On a wet and extremely windy day in March, thirty members of the congregation, including the Parochial Church Council, travelled to Rydal Hall to spend a day together, seeking to find out what God wants for his Church in Grange.  It was a follow-on to the Growing Healthy Churches exercise, and the day was led by the Revd Amiel Osmaston, Ministry Development Officer for the Diocese, who was introduced to the group by Canon Anthony Clegg.

After a warming and welcome cup of coffee, the Curate, Ruth Crossley, opened the day with a short form of worship, which included a reflection from Archbishop Oscar Romero.

The day was split into three sessions:

1 - learning and growth

2 - listening and following

3 - ministering and serving

as members explored what it meant to be disciples and ministers in today's church.

 

At lunchtime the opportunity was taken to wander in the grounds of the Hall, and to walk down the lane to look at Dora's field, where the daffodils were at their best.  How coincidental that it was the day after 260,000 primary schoolchildren had recited Wordsworth's well-known poem (I wandered lonely as a cloud ...) to earn a place in the Guiness Book of Records, while at the same time raising money for Marie Curie Cancercare!

It was 200 years since the poem was written while the poet was living at Rydal Mount, next door to the Diocesan Centre, Rydal Hall.

During the sessions, members worked in pairs and shared together their innermost thoughts.  In seeking to love God and follow his way, what had we learnt and how had we grown and changed -
  • in our heart (character, attitudes, feelings, desires)
  • in our mind (knowledge, understanding)
  • in our soul or spirit (perception of God and relationship with him)
  • in our strength (skills, abilities, behaviour, activities)

We examined the different ways that God speaks to us, as individuals, and as a church, and what was it that 'got in the way' of his message, again as individuals and in church.  How did the PCC seek God's will, and put that into practice?

In an exercise designed to help us discover our 'heart's desire' in ministry, we were asked to write our own epitaph!  What would we most like people to say about us after our death, and what were the things that gave us most enjoyment, satisfaction and fulfilment at present?

We were reminded that we were all called to use our lives in serving God and ministering to other people in his name. We were asked about our current areas of ministry and how closely these matched with the things we were most passionate about.

Were there things we were doing that we could replace with others that would be more fulfilling, joyful, effective and fruitful?

Finally, the question was asked: what did we want most - for ourselves, for our Church, and for the community, and the answers were incorporated into the final prayer session.

A happy, thought-provoking and stimulating day!